MLC or not - know your rights, protect yourself

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks GM

I have often wondered if H is truly MLC or if he is just a narcissist with a personality disorder? Even his family says this is behavior that had laid dormant for all the years we were together. They genuinely believed I brought out the best in him. Did he ever love me? Was he using me this whole time? Does it really matter anymore?

How do you protect the children? My S sees his dad for what he is. But he still loves his dad and it makes me sad that H will never be the dad the kids want or deserve. It makes me angry. One that H isn't capable of being what the kids deserve and two that I picked this man so somehow I failed the kids as well too.

Does research do any good? Honestly I am at a point where things just are what they are and explanations just do no good whatsoever.

WH