maybe a bit off the edge?

[dingo]

So my other revelation for the day is that I have constantly been giving my wife the benefit of the doubt (even though I don't believe her) and making excuses for her when it comes to her 'working' on things with me. I've accepted halfassed advances, less than enthusiastic 'commitments' and 'trying' for 2 weeks before giving up, all in the name of no pressure and taking it slowly.

I think the next time she comes back, if she comes back, and if I want her back, I will be looking for a lot more before I even allow myself to drop my guard.