Originally Posted By: newyork


I need done advice


Wait, you're already done? LOL

I think Cadet wanted to know what you are doing new for YOU. New friends, activities, hobbies, that have nothing to do with your W.

I suggest not worrying about "showing" her. Just be the new you and be consistent about it. She'll notice, but it will take time.

It's a good sign there has been no talk of D. Time is your friend here.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl