my wife left, but still lives with me

[OneDay]

Perhaps today my wife isn't irritated with my presence. Perhaps she is off being sneaky! Looking on her iphone for ways to poison her husband and get away with it Perhaps looking for legal ways to get me kicked out of the house..... Perhaps texting with her friends about how i am such a lame spouse and egads how she is done! Or maybe she has totally changed her mind and looking for venues in which we can renew our vows

See, speculation, presumption, concerning myself with her mind set, gets me all over the chart. And to boot, I bet none of those ideas are really what she is thinking. More proof of how detaching is required..........

this is really good stuff here and SO TRUE. I think and say those same thing to myself all the time. Then I'll finally tell myself to stop. Even though it's easier said than done. We have to Detach. And I mean fully DETACH.

Now the question is.... ... How do we effectively DETACH when we are still living together.