Here is the latest on my situation, My W & I have been having good communication when we need to speak, on Friday the whole family (3 kids, E, & I) spent 1 1/2 just talking and having a good time when I picked my daughter up. Talked at my daughters gymnastics meet today about what we did on Saturday, she mentioned why I was against doing those fun activities in the past. I stated I have learned a lot about what is important & what is not in the last couple of months. W then stated it was 'only talk' and no 'actions' have been shown.
My question us how can I show her actions when she is 100% focused on her OM? She still hasn't mentioned anything about divorce, I think she is going through a MLC based on what I've read in the DB book & on the forums. 85% of W conversations are good, plus I notice her 'checking' me out every time we are together & she also complimented me 3 times today. But some of her actions are speaking a whole different message, I'm confused as I think she is as well.
