Heather, this is so sad that it came to this kind of relationship between your H and your daughters. They do have a lot of resentment. I’m just afraid that he is going to decide to retreat even further away thinking that his family no longer loves him and needs him. Will your daughters be upset if he would not make any more effort to even see them? I know that he’s been doing it already, but he could just give up completely. It sounded like your daughters were punishing him. Are they prepared for him to completely disappear from their lives? I’m not saying that they should treat him differently, I just don’t want see them hurt more.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state