Just catching up on your post. It is difficult to have no expectations, but I think it depends on the state of your h. (If you saw my h, you would no why having no expectations has been a little easier:)
Funny, I went bowling today. Enjoy your league as that sounds totally fun.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer