FY, this change in feelings is very familiar to me. I had no idea that in your situation (when your W lives in the house and you talk) you also get these feelings of being done. In my sitch (when almost nothing is going on) I do get some glimpses of hope sometimes, then it changes to the feelings of no hope and desire to be done. This is indeed a brutal rollercoaster.

Keep thinking the positive thoughts.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state