It certainly is nerve racking Kgirl! I go to IC and discuss the parameters of DB'ing and she isn't familiar with it. Once explained, she seems to get the concept of how it works. Not sure she 100% agrees with it but she is smart enough to not dismiss it as she doesn't know the subject.

Perhaps today my wife isn't irritated with my presence. Perhaps she is off being sneaky! Looking on her iphone for ways to poison her husband and get away with it smile Perhaps looking for legal ways to get me kicked out of the house..... Perhaps texting with her friends about how i am such a lame spouse and egads how she is done! Or maybe she has totally changed her mind and looking for venues in which we can renew our vows smile

See, speculation, presumption, concerning myself with her mind set, gets me all over the chart. And to boot, I bet none of those ideas are really what she is thinking. More proof of how detaching is required..........


me 41 w43
married 20 years
BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY....
4 kids, 21,18,8,6