my wife left, but still lives with me

[tough spot]

Today i sense that she is almost irritated to be around me. Of course, that book i mentioned, 'the four agreements' states that one 'isn't supposed to presume'. That book is kind of interesting. certainly has things in it that can make me a better person.

If you can get through the 'this sounds like it was written by a stoned flower child'. Still, worth reading if you have the time.

I don't want to move out of the bedroom. A) only the couch is an option and B) if she wants to leave, she can move out the bedroom.

I think it is much more of a stressful situation for her, I have never had problems sleeping.....things that are bothering her definitely keep her up. So maybe putting her in a stressful situation is bad for R, but I don't think making myself uncomfortable to ease her emotions is necessarily a good thing for me either.