my wife abandon me

[ye21]

thank you all for your responses, I have been following those lines that you sent me in the first response... I don't contact her at all.
She sent me this email a couple of days ago:


I would like to come pick up my stuff next week. Can you email me the times you will be out of the house so I can know when I can do that?

Also, the car needs to be transfered to you. Can you leave the insurance card that shows the address of ...... so I can take that to the DMV and have them resend the title to the right address. I will pick up the card next week when I come get my stuff.

I also would like to know if you think you are going to be able to return the security deposit of $775 to me soon?

And the last part is regarding your papers in this country. I would like to sign the divorce papers soon. Please let me know if you need me to wait a month or two until you get your permanent greencard or what.

Thank you.

Then after that the next day she sent me an email because the car insurance emails go directly to her email so she sent me an email where she ask for me to change the email address...

Again my friends I didn't respond to none of the emails and I am planning not to do it, I think maybe she is feeling insecure or trying to make me reassure her decision of getting D and that's why I rather not contact her.

when we went to couples therapy last week she used the therapist as a mediator for our D, and basically she asked me already all the things that she is asking me again on the email, and I was fully commited as I told her to do what she needs but obviously I cant paint money.... so she will have to wait a little bit.

There I can see one of the 2 biggest issues in our relationship... no matter how many times I told her the things she will need to repeat them to me, so basically she doesn't trust me at all and I cant be with somebody so insecure no matter how much I love them.
I feel when somebody matters for you, you just don't send them an email, you first try to call them or in this case she has the keys of the house, I texted her when we were in couples therapy my days off and also I told her yes to everything in that couples therapy, what else she wants? hurt me more?

Also why she is in such a rush to get the freaking divorce?? we had been together for 4 and a half years, I don't understand the rush to divorce in a month or two...