Day 4 of going dim (I'm guessing that's the term- I'm not ignoring him, but I refuse to contact first). He said he would text (I knew not to hold my breath, but did anyway)...he's out of town with some buddies snowmobiling , or should we say AVOIDING!

This is his pattern: work 18 hrs a day for weeks and then go out of town to do an outdoor activity of some sort--- anything to avoid facing your demons!

Mark it down: I'm predicting this will continue until I give up. We take one step forward and then one step back.

Feeling frustrated (but at least it's not angry today!!)


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5