Grey I lost most to Cb also. W an easily see what the kids and I are doing. Even during the past few months Together she does not foment or " like " any of it.

Diner was fine and it was platonic. Not much different from dinner with W the past few years. She has no interest. In pursuing a R. With a M. Man and I don't want one. Massages at the gym are fine. I am respecting my vows.

Contact is sowing to nothing. It is what if is....I must just continue on ME.

Betsey, my W was fairly distant and our physical. R was not good especially during the past year. I do.kiss affection, but there's. Nothing I can do about that at the moment.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14