One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

Hi artsy,

I am not sure if she knows I had a profile on the site. I put one up last spring after this all had started and I was hurt and angry. I have been too lazy to figure out how to pull it down. I believe she has put hers up as a reaction to both my older daughters going to school or trying to go to school many states away. She said the other night after my middle daughter told me that she got accepted to a college in NC that the girls did not need her anymore. Yes it bothers me a bit, but I have to detach and not let it affect me.

Thanks for the comments on cyclical thought. I had not thought of that. I will have to do some reading and talk to my IC to understand how I might be able to tell if this might be the case and if there is anything I can do to help her break the cycle.