Thank you I'm flattered and touched. Yes it is something that will always be in my mind. I don't believe he was trying to be selfish, anymore than I was trying to not see improvement needed. It just was.
The biggest thing for me... knowing I'm going to be fine, and perhaps even better! I accept who I am, and I love to learn, so I won't stay stagnant.
I am making a choice to be happy, REALLY HAPPY. There are many years ahead of me. My father will be 87 soon, mom is 84. His mom lived to 110! And my maternal g-mom to 98 ! As long as I keep healthy, while working towards always improving upon myself, I'll be more than fine. Either way, he gives it a real try and I allow him the opportunity, or I choose to move on and keep growing... I'm going to be wonderful!
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay