You both keep score, you just do it silently.

Again, I don't see this convo as all bad. She apologized for what she did. That's doesn't happen much around here from the WAS.

She realizes she has an issue, she just doesn't know how to fix it. She may figure it out, she may not.

Why is it lose/lose for you?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss