I actually am not looking for a R with anyone right now. I have just been lazy in not removing my profile from the dating site. I have a ways to go in finding myself right now.
No she does not know the boundary and neither of us is at a point where we can even discuss anything like that.
In terms of what some movement would mean, I would like to see her in counseling with someone who will help her to develop skills to cope with her depression. I would like to see her actively looking to help herself rather than just accepting that she will always be unhappy and looking to pass the blame for this onto others. I would like to see her stand up to it and not retreat into it. I know its a lot to ask, but after so many years of being there for her, encouraging her and support her decisions only to have hope dashed each and every time I don't know what else to hope for.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"