Interestingly, many introverts are very good public speakers, I am and I enjoy it but it's not interacting with a group, making small talk, bonding. Very different activity.

Being nervous or anxious in large setting isn't a hallmark of an introvert. I can have a great time in those settings, for a while, then I'm done and need to go home. Too much time there and it, as I said before, suxx the life right out of me.

I would be happy if no one ever called me on the phone again, but texting is fine.

I have 3 people I consider good friends and lots of acquaintances. I don't spend lots of time with any of them. I'm good with that.

Probably more about me than you need to know but I found it so freeing when I recognized that I'm OK just the way I am. I quit trying to be what I wasn't.

PM, you'll know when you're ready to let someone else into your circle. You're not ready yet.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss