Maybe you needed to have another talk about reapportioning the duties around running a household, inside, ouside, finances, etc, the whole shootin' match.
It seems that the task isn't the issue, it's how you both reacted around the issue of the task. You tried to do it (it seems without telling her why), made P/A comments, she then was angry, she didn't do it, you didn't do it, arguments endsued and here you are.
Have you told her why you're now doing these things?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
