Hi Ruby,

It seems that H needs this. Time and space to figure out who he is. I think you made a decision out of love for him and yourself. It shows self- respect and compassion for where he is right now.

I am glad you are going to put the focus back on you. You deserve some time for yourself. While we often talk about his journey - this has been tough on you too.

Your H's confusion has been bringing you up and down in such short amounts of time. Your emotions must be exhausted. I hope you don't disappear for long. Focus on finding the calm.

Much love to you x


TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home