It seems that H needs this. Time and space to figure out who he is. I think you made a decision out of love for him and yourself. It shows self- respect and compassion for where he is right now.
I am glad you are going to put the focus back on you. You deserve some time for yourself. While we often talk about his journey - this has been tough on you too.
Your H's confusion has been bringing you up and down in such short amounts of time. Your emotions must be exhausted. I hope you don't disappear for long. Focus on finding the calm.
Much love to you x
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home