WANT TO COAST ON FLAT LAND

[willbwell]

ambivalent, you know I have been reading along. Your posts have helped me so. I am grateful for this site as a place to vent, to seek knowledge.
I am finding too that I placed H and his needs much of the time before my own in our M.
I questioned my self just now reading your post....I would probably continue if he came back.
I always knew my h was selfish. came from a selfish family. all his sibs placed themselves first as did his own mother.but I still love him regardless.
It is the long term impact to our children that I have the hardest time with.
That h just wanted to 'move forward'(his words) without trying to fix.
So, I'll check in with you. post when you can.
I think you will be dancing with someone fabulous someday!