One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

Well I have slept on it and decided to do nothing. If I make a comment to her about it then I am not detaching. I can see now that this is a reaction of hers to my second daughter getting accepted to college and my Ws comment that the girls don't need her anymore. She has defined herself first and foremost as a mother and is now feeling that slipping away with the kids moving on with their lives. Since her post on the dating site is half hearted at best with no real content I hope she will slow down and take the time to find herself first before she rushes off into some R.

For me, I will continue to detach, GAL, practice my 180s, work on myslef and my relationship with my daughters.