Me 15 months on - standing - detaching

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Thanks Flyonthewall, but I am ok with the business side of things. I have/am buying the houses from the W solely for my and sons future (something we both had planned). I won't be giving in to be nice to her.
Yes, they are playing dirty. They are the ones who are saying nasty things, doing nasty things and not caring about the circumstances.
So I will repeat this: I was nice and agreed to what the W wanted. Yes I was very lucky, she wanted very little (her choice). But that does not mean that if she had her solicitor draw up another legal document wanting more, that I would roll over and have my tongue fall out.
If anything, I cannot do anything more at this stage. I have signed the documents based on what the W wanted (very little) and all she needs to do is sign them herself. End of story. It will only change if she wants to redo the legal documents. In all honesty I don't expect it, because she wants it over with asap. She also isn't listening to her family, so whatever MIL says will go in one ear and out the other.

My main focus is dealing with my boys, especially in the wake of the MIL saying that they think I am selfish.

If they have questions, then answer them, if they don't then they probably don't need the details anyways.

That is kind of how I have been acting for quite a few months, and agree that it is a good way to continue.