Hot, this is NO ONE's business but you and your W's. Plz don't give in to be nice. Do what you need to do to protect yourself and yours sons' futures. It doesn't matter if they don't understand right now, they will.
If they have questions, then answer them, if they don't then they probably don't need the details anyways. There is no such thing as playing nice in a divorce, in fact, they're playing dirty already by saying the things they're saying.
Separate emotions from this or else. This a business transaction. Would you go buy a car and give the salesman all he was asking for in the process? Why would you give your rights away now. If you think your already giving away to much, then you are, period.
I've seen this first hand, place nice, and you'll regret it down the road. They don't care if your nice right now, they just want MORE. No matter what your starting point is, they'll ask for even more. Come to terms with this fast, or you'll be paying a lot longer than you think you will.
