New thread....hope I did it right and link to previous above.
Thanks AJM. Ya she is not right. Regret in general that it is the end, I guess. Definitely nothing I did, that deserves the hate. I did everything on the up and up and honest. Maybe regret I was so busy with work, kids and their sports doing what i believed was right for the family that I did not get her, and us the help needed. Not sure that would have helped. She sees nothing wrong with her behaviour. 2 of her friends yesterday told me they are concerned about her and see her faltering and she has been lying to them. They are stunned she cancelled trip with kids and went on her own over the Holidays. very selfish. One has completely lost faith in her and does not want to associate with her except with our kids being best friends. Got warm hugs. They know me well as I have coached their kids for years and their H's are my pals. Just sad we cannot enjoy things together anymore too. Sad what she has become and what our family has become.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
