Going to IC, going to AA meetings again, bought a guitar/learning how to play one, reading a lot of books. Two weeks of no R talk seems to be an indication of detaching. Since we live together but in the same bed even.....lots of opportunity for talking however I am not. I wouldn't say as detached as possible but pretty damn good for the situation!
me 41 w43 married 20 years BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY.... 4 kids, 21,18,8,6