JonF really listen to what LTH is saying. It really hit home for me.
Sorry to hijack your thread,but....

LTH,
Check out my tread when you get a chance.
Thanks


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it