One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

Hi Labug,

Thanks for your comments and pushing me to look at things. Presently I am not discussing her illness with her. That was reserved for when we were together. I believe one of the final discussions with her that pushed her in the direction she has chosen is when I confronted her on the fact she was consuming up to 30 ounces of wine every evening. She responding that she did not even feel it and that I was a light weight. I tried to explain to her the interaction of ADs with the liver and why she won't feel the effects of the alcohol and she did not want to hear it. Unfortunately their are many layers of complexity to my situation and I have to decide if I want to work at pealing off each layer. I have decided that I would have to see some movement on her part to get the help she needs to working on her issues before I would return to a full married relationship with her. Until then I will continue to work on myself and my relationship with my daughters.