Sorry about the panicked post. Every one made it home okay. It did drive home the point that my #1 goal now is to have a safe environment for s both physically and emotionally.
I guess I am in a don't poke the bear mode. The first thing I read this morning was a tinybuddah article on thinking before acting. Hitting pause. I have slipped and this is a good reminder.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15