my wife left, but still lives with me

[tough spot]

Today was difficult. Close to two weeks since any R discussion. I have no idea of what is going through wife's mind. She hasn't filed for D, is she waiting for something? If she is waiting for something, what the hell is that something?

Basically I feel out of control which is not something I like to feel. I so want to just ask 'what are your plans' or 'what are we doing'. This living together and chit chatting, making jokes, getting along all while having a monstrous elephant in the room is nerve wracking.