Originally Posted By: labug
Did you leave the site up on the computer at some time? I would guess had she been reading a lot she would have said more. But maybe not.
I'm not sure but I don't think so. I've only used my home computer a few times. Like u said it's too late now and nothing I can do anyway

On a different note. WAW had a super rant on me last night. She told me that everything is my fault and how i do everything wrong. How everything from dirty dishes to leaving the toilet seat up is my fault. There was much more but It was basically an I, I, I and you don't or ur not rant. Basically I can't do enough or on time or right. She kept going and going and nothing I said mattered. I was getting angry, because none of it was true, but didn't let it show. I ended up tell her that she needs to take a long look in the mirror then said I'm done with this conversation and I'm going for a walk, run or something and I'll b back later.

When I returned she came up to me an apologized about putting the entire blame on me. She admitted to having a lot of built up resentment towards me and she's trying to forgive me. She also said she's keeping score as to who does what around the house and she hates that about herself but can't help it. She admitted that I'm not solely to blame and that she has issues too.

After hearing that I realized she has always done that. Always kept score and no matter what was done it was never good enough or the way or at the time she wanted it done and it bothered her greatly.

It really stinks knowing this and I can tell you it's a lose, lose for me. This is something she has to work through.


Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14