If an A isn't a deal breaker for you, you're creating a lot of angst for no gain. Let it go, let her go, be friendly but no pursuing. Giver her space.
A question. Why do you call it helping when you do chores around your house where you and your children live? Who are you helping? Think about the message that sends to your W and anyone hearing it.
If it's all been her responsibility, that's probably why she doesn't want your help at this late date.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
