Thanks suckerpunch, but it helps me put a better perspective on things. Sometimes we think we are the only ones this happens to, but in reality there are many of us, some worse, some better, some the same. It doesn't make a difference, we are all hurting in our own ways. My empathy goes to you also suckerpunch.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.