Me 15 months on - standing - detaching

[hotwheelsaust]

Well that was so much fun. Yes, as I believed it was always about me and what I did wrong.
MIL issues:
* I lied to her about the job transfer location.
- I explained 1. the boys needed to know first 2. It wasn't 100% guaranteed 3. why would I need or want to tell her after 6 months of no communication
* I am/was selfish over the whole splitting of assets.
- Sorry to say folks, I started to lose it. I did keep my voice calm I did try to validate, but I had to stand up for myself here.
- This is where the family (mil) is a joke sometimes. I told her firstly, I don't need to explain myself to her, but I will. I explained calmly that I haven't fought the W on any issue with splitting the assets. All I have done is agreed to everything she wanted/not wanted. In the MIL's opinion I should have told her (W) how unfair that is/was and renegotiated the deal. WTF.
- She asked "well what would you say if W wanted to change things now?". I answered back that would be between W and I.
- Anyway bottom dollar, she walked out of the house saying I am still a selfish bastard that hasn't changed and no wonder W won't go back and she (W) is quite right in her ways to be with this other woman, who by the way isn't in a relationship with W. Another WTF?
Total time here 20mins.
So the whole conversation meeting was to have a go at me and truth be known, to request me to allow the W to have the townhouse (investment property) to come back to next year.
And the MIL doesn't want to speak to me ever again, because in case you didn't hear, I am SELFISH.