Four weeks in, hopeful but just starting!

[KGirl]

After sleeping on it I think I know the answer to my own question : ) Asking about my "find" is not going to get me closer to my goal of him coming around and wanting to make an attempt at fixing our M instead of walking away. There will be a time and a place later, if things do turn around, to ask this, but there's no point in asking now.

On another note, today I went to look at an apartment just to get some ideas and so I could feel like I was doing something to help myself if I suddenly couldn't take living in my house anymore. I told H I was leaving for an appointment, and that's it. When I got home..
Me: Shoot, I forgot to get a snow scraper for the car on my way home.
H: Where did you go?
Me: *pause* I went to look at an apartment
H: You went to an apartment to get a snow scraper? *joking tone*
Me: No, I was going to get it on the way back.
And then he just goes about like normal, or whatever that is nowadays. No "oh good, you should really find a new place to live" or "maybe you shouldn't do that yet" or questions about where it is or what it's like. Just nothing. Shouldn't there be SOME kind of reaction?! WAS's are confusing especially if they don't actually "walk away"... just stay where they are but say they don't want to be married.