Blues that is great progress because you are NOT responsible for his decisions and actions nor are you the reason.
I think it is perfectly normal to not have warm fuzzies for your H. I still love the man I married and hope that he will one day see that he can work to be a better person (like I am doing) but I certainly do not have feelings for the scruffy dirty alien living in my house.
I think part of why we are going the dbing route is so that we can get strong and live a life of your choosing. If he eventually wants back in you can decide and know that you will be just fine either way.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
