As before, thank you AS! I appreciate te response!

When I say I am not going to be the pursuer, I mean I'm not going to send him emails and texts, etc for no reason. I will keep up the affection until I get negative reactions- IC and DB coach said to keep it up. It was his main complaint about me. Just for the record: he actually initiates most of it, not me! Although I will throw in a few touches on my own.

I'm not going to ignore him either, but one of my short term goals is for him to initiate contact more, which he did Wednesday evening. So I will continue to sit back until I need to re-assess.

Bowling league starts tonight! Part if my GAL! (We're horrible, but that's what makes it fun!!)


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5