Either way - anger will keep being mirrored into each other. This seems to be a 'stage' you are going through in the grieving process possibly. Hugs to you, spend time with your side of family in this time.
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Never allow kindness be misinterpreted for weakness. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.