His two main complaints: I am not the same fun, fiery person I was when we met and I don't show him enough affection ( he's correct on both)
Part of DB'ing is getting back in touch with that person you once were. Think about what made you "fun" and "fiery" and try to put that back in your life. Try to become the person your H was originally attracted to, that may very well attract him back again.
