My phone coaching went well as always. I have a little more clarity. you were right labug about taking my time. not pressuring things. However there are issues I need to address in a firm manner which I will need to do at some stage but again not urgent. The progression forward is pretty good.
So looking at continuing to
Look good
Be fun
Don't disclose all my plans - hard to do when living under same roof. but happy to keep trying to GAL.
Allowing him to make most of the effort toward anything regarding separation and/or family activities/dates as he needs to make the effort.
Openly flirt from time to time with a convenient touch.
Always use manners and appreciate their effort on the little things.
Start to think about how I will bring up the committment to R and trust issues. Am thinking a lunch date during week with careful words. ??? any other ideas?


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