I guess the big question is does she come back to the marriage as a loving partner. Feels like a real longshot. Btw doing my inner work. Like crazy. Had the seeds planted for years now from a good T. I just wasn't ready to hear him. I am now. Does she change that much. I don't want the self centered person they left. Shes not so nice. Not w goodnmom or wife.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14