Looking back at my thread and filling in missing pieces:
His two main complaints: I am not the same fun, fiery person I was when we met and I don't show him enough affection ( he's correct on both)
My 180s include showing everyone more affection, especially him. And, along with my GAL, getting out of the house as much as possible. I fell into a rut of being a home body. This will help me get back to "me", which needs to happen whether he's still in my life, or not.
I think that answers everything!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5