Reaching out for support and advice 2

[bluesgal]

Deep breath and relief. Thanks Labug. Yes, I suppose that can be lovingly detaching.

I just no longer feel responsible for H decisions. He can own them and I will continue to grow.

I wish I felt warmer towards him. I find it tough to act smiley/nice around him, but I'll give it time.

When I reflect, I really have created a life of my own and he has little to do with it. It is an eye opener to the progress I've made. I no longer wait around for him to come home and plan stuff to purposely put us together. Nope. I'm working on identifying and moving past my fears. That is tough work. I know what I don't want to face....