Sorry for all the typos- apparently my thumbs are bigger than I like to think they are! It seems at least one of my posts is missing: to answer a couple questions...
His bad behavior involved lying about his whereabouts and other stupid minor things. Included in this was an EA.
I was on ADs for 2 years. I have been off if them now for almost a year and a half.
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5