You're seeing it as a setback, but it's not- it feels like one. Theres a difference. I have the exact swing of emotions after I see my H. I feel good about the interaction, and then a few hours later I'm upset we are where we are and angry again. It's all based on fear, and we need to detach some more, methinks!
An it is totally normal to think its awkward to be "dating" someone you've known for over 5 years. It's hard to have a "beginner's mind" when you have baggage with someone!
I am struggling really badly with havin to re-define my relationship. I want what I want, and I want it NOW! Lol. I see the same things with you. We gotta keep on keepin on!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
