I have had a consultation with a lawyer and his response is that there's nothing I can do about it, for the reasons you mentioned. You can't fight it. But if I say no, can the judge ask us to take mediation, order us to try separation first, or does my no (with a yes from H) have absolutely no value?


Me:28
H:30
D:3
M:6.5
T:7.5
BD: 10-27-13
H moved out: 11-01-13
Handling other paperwork before petition is to be filed.