Reaching out for support and advice 2

[bluesgal]

I'm wondering if my 'detaching' is me saying goodbye to this relationship. I catch myself thinking that I do not love the man my H has become. I do not want to be with someone who seems incapable of working through their problems. I don't want to be with someone who easily lies and cheats on me.

I know, I know-he's in a bad place, blah, blah, blah. I feel so worn out. So tired of this sitch that I think about him/it less often all the time. I find myself being happier when he's gone. I fantasize about ending this whole nightmare.

This is obviously not 'lovingly detaching'. Is this part of the process or am I on my way out?