You know Wonka, there are some patterns....middle of the day is best, usually...non-hormonal flux days (per her even, lol) and so forth.
Usually though, I can "just tell"...24+ years together, I am pretty observational by nature, and there was and still is some other "connection" flowing through there too, whatever that is.
But these days I am so busy with new work projects, maintaining the house, cooking, cleaning, kids stuff, and band that I am not sitting around trying to figure too much out very often. Sometimes I barely have enough head space for all of my life, much less hers, atm.
It does help that she is more communicative about her current "states" (in fact, she makes an effort to do so). She told me the last few days that she is very hormonal, fragile, and processing stuff. And I thank her for letting me know and go about life with that info in mind, accepted, as is. And here I thought it was the full moon and that someone fed her crazy sauce...
And so it goes...that is what's up around here and this sitch.
Slooooooooooowly, yet the progress is there, if I look.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
