separated 6 weeks still on the journey

[FloydMan]

Agreed. Separate yourself financially. Only put in your proportionate share of expenses. Separate financially. Believe me, this is the nightmare I am living now. I am out more than $30,000. Basically she stole it, but it was my stupidity and negligence to trust it would be balanced at the end. At the same time I needed to protect my credit and not let bills, mortgage and loans default. She played on this...and she's a friggin bank manager. They don't care. Protect yourself. Separate financially.