All you can do is continuously work on personal growth. That should be the objective no matter our circumstances.
I am concerned about you having to worry about your account. Is it absolutely necessary to continue having your income deposited in a shared account? Is there a way to protect yourself?
Ben
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa